open relationships
My Advice for People Considering Polyamory
Polyamory won't fix your problems or save your relationship, but it may help you grow.
I Celebrated My Honeymoon at Berghain's Notorious Gay Sex Club
Lab.Oratory is a place where gay sex knows few limits—a perfect metaphor for our marriage.
Why People Are Fighting to Get Polyamory Recognized as a Sexual Orientation
A global debate over whether polyamory is something we do or something we are has challenged our ideas of identity, sexual rights, and their legal limits.
The Beauty and Splendor of Being a Slut
I would estimate that I've slept with up to 3,500 men. But sex, whether at random or not, always represents a human connection—and that can always be beautiful.
How I Told My Husband and Boyfriend I'm Dating Another Man
I already had a husband, a boyfriend, and all the guys I could fuck. I had enough guys. Then there was Conor.
Are Young People Really More Open to Polyamory or Do We Just Like to Cheat?
Some have said hookup culture is muddying the waters of what it means to be in a monogamous relationship. But is that necessarily true?
How to Have an Open Relationship Without Annoying the Shit Out of Everyone
I know what I'm talking about, because in my personal life I'm a target for a lot of open couples.
This Is What It's Like to Watch Your Wife Regularly Have Sex with Other Guys
Vern has been watching his wife bang other men at London swinging parties for the past 15 years.
How to Have a Non-Monogamous Relationship
The seminal book on non-monogamy, The Ethical Slut, was published in 1997—but that shit is hard to read. So we made this easily digestible A-to-Z guide to understanding non-monogamy instead.